Images of childhood
Within any
one culture, people’s ideas of what childhood is and what a child is
may vary according to
their occupation, gender, ethnicity, and, of course, their own experiences and inclinations.
This section begins by asking you to think about your own and other people’s
ideas about children and childhood.
What is a c hild?
This
activity will stimulate your thoughts about different ways of understanding
children, as a starting 45 minutes point
for introducing the concept of child development.
1 When
you think of children, what ideas come to mind? Initially, concentrate on
visual images of children – how they look,
what they are doing and the feelings they evoke in you. Make a note of three
contrasting images of children that occur to you, either from personal
experiences or images in the media.
2 Now
explore some ways in which childhood has changed. For example, think about what it
was like for your parents or carers when they were young. Were their experiences
of childhood different from the experiences of children today? Next, think
about your own memories and then think about children growing up today.
Some areas
of change might relate to home, school or starting work, clothing, games and
pastimes, deference to authority, or differences between boys and girls.
3 Finally,
think about your personal beliefs about children, and about how they should be treated
at different ages. For example, in relation to care, the importance of play and learning,
how much freedom they should be allowed or the role of discipline. You may find
these proverbs a useful starting point:
‘Children
are the wealth of the nation’ (proverb – Tanzania)
‘Children
are innocent like angels; they can’t do any harm’ (proverb – Pakistan)
‘A tree
should be bent while it is still young’ (proverb – South Africa)
‘The egg
should not be smarter than the duck’ (proverb – Vietnam)
‘It is the
young trees that make the forest thick’ (proverb – Uganda)
Comment
While
carrying out this activity, you may have found that you have very definite
ideas about children and childhood. You may also
have become aware of the sources of these views; for example, memories of your own
childhood, experiences with your own children or with the children of others, your parents’ or
grandparents’ views, the views of your community, information in books and other media
or religious belief. If you were able to talk to someone else for this activity you may have
found a wide range of views and you may also be aware of the way these ideas have changed
over time. For example, during the early decades of the twentieth century, parents were
urged to feed their new babies according to a strict timetable and not
to pick them up when they cried, which may seem unthinkable to new parents nowadays.
If people
think about children differently, are behaving differently with children, and
consider children themselves are behaving differently, does this mean children
are fundamentally different or is it more that people’s ideas about childhood
have changed?

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